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Possible outcomes for the marital home in divorce

For some people who are going through a divorce, the status of the house is the biggest financial decision they have to make. There are a few ways to handle this, so carefully evaluate each option before you decide on what you'd like to do.

If you are going through mediation or another collaborative divorce method, remember that your choice might not align with your ex's. In this case, you'd have to negotiate to come up with terms that are mutually agreeable.

How divorced parents can prevent winter holiday disputes

The winter holiday season is a time to celebrate with family, friends and other loved ones. But if you're divorced, it's also a time to create a co-parenting and visitation schedule that works for you, your ex and your children.

There is no surefire way to prevent winter holiday disputes with your ex, but there are some basic tips you can follow to hedge off trouble before it bogs you down during what's supposed to be the best time of the year.

How divorced parents can help school-aged children

You and your spouse decided to get divorced after a decade of marriage and two children. The oldest is in fourth grade. The youngest is in first grade. They both go to school full time now, and their education is very important to you.

Is the divorce going to have an impact on that education? It can. You and your ex need to take the time to think about what you can do to help your school-aged children. If you have the right focus, they can thrive in their post-divorce life. But it will take work on your part. Here are a few things you can do.

Defend yourself when facing court-martial as a military member

When you join a branch of the United States military, you agree to abide by not just federal, state and local laws, but also by the unique laws that govern the military. Military law in many ways is far stricter than civilian law.

For example, military members can still face court-martial and punishments if they conduct an extramarital affair while serving as an active duty member of the military. Although civilians can divorce, military members have to worry about career consequences, while also dealing with a comparatively high marriage failure rate because of the demands from their jobs.

Protecting parenting time with your child after divorce

After parents divorce, it is often difficult for them to adjust to sharing parenting responsibilities and privileges fairly, even after the court approves their custody order. While it is normal to feel the strain of co-parenting, some parents behave in ways that are simply incompatible with modern parenting plans.

If your child's other parent interferes with your court-ordered time with your child, this behavior may qualify as parenting time interference. Courts take parenting and custody plans seriously, because they lay out the specific rights of each parent, and each right deserves protection. Parents who habitually or severely violate these agreements may suffer significant consequences.

When does it make sense to update your estate plan?

Upon creating a comprehensive estate plan, you'll feel a sense of relief. You now have a plan in place to protect you and your assets while you're alive, as well as after your death.

It's not something you should dwell on every day of the week, but there are times when you should review your estate plan with the idea of making key changes.

How do contested and uncontested divorces differ?

Many people assume that the divorce process is always the same, and people with this assumption may be surprised to learn that it is untrue. Texas couples who are considering divorce can select the divorce process that make the most sense for their situation.

If you and your spouse are considering ending your marriage, it can be beneficial to understand the options, so you can select the one that best meets your needs. In general, a couple can choose a contested divorce or an uncontested divorce.

Active military personnel among most likely to divorce

Rates of divorce and marital problems tend to be common when spouses are in certain career paths more than others. Specific fields will see significantly high rates of divorce before the age of 30. The career path that sees the highest rate of divorce in couples under 30, is enlisted military supervisors (non-commissioned officers or NCOs), with a divorce rate of around 30 percent. Following closely behind this occupation are:

  • Logisticians
  • Mechanics or automotive technicians
  • Military-enlisted positions in tactical operations and air weapons

Understand your right with a denied benefits application

As a veteran, you deserve everyone's respect and support. You went through trials and tribulations so that others could live comfortable lives. If you suffered an injury while on tour or as a result of your time in the military, then you deserve the benefits that were promised to you.

If you file for VA disability benefits and have your application denied, it can be extremely frustrating. Fortunately, you do have a right to an appeal. The bad part about appeals is that they can take a long time. That's why it's so important to work with your attorney and make sure you submit everything accurately.

How is child support amounts determined?

Ending a marriage puts many parents in serious anxiety of their financial stability. When you have a child to raise, you are more likely going to expend large amounts of money on the costs of raising that child. During your marriage, you probably didn’t have to feel the tight reigns of a budget as much as when you are on your own. Either way, you need to know exactly what to expect for the financial reliability you need when raising a child.

It is common to ask questions regarding the child support process, including: “Who is responsible for paying child support?”, “How much will be owed?”, “What factors contribute to the amount?”, and “Can I modify my child support amounts in the future?”. To have these questions answered directly pertaining to your situation, you need the advice of a family lawyer.


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